You have preconceived ideas of what sex should involve
You are not like others who sit and crave or daydream about sex when not in a relationship. That’s just “empty” and repulsive to you. Well, let’s just say you’re not on that level. Relationships have to be deep and meaningful and so does sex, whenever you reach that point where you are sexually attracted to someone.
Sex must involve a romantic connection and focus may not be on experimenting with various sexual positions. Doing this could prevent the emotional climax you seek during intercourse. Sex is supposed to be experienced with the emotions more than the physical. It is a vehicle to deepen your connection with your partner instead of an act to achieve physical gratification.
